Although it has been a few years now, my first swinger experience was very memorable. There have been dozens of swinger couples since that first swinging experience but I remember it like it was yesterday.
I had always had a strong sex drive but have never really considered swinging. That is, I never had considered it until a close friend revealed to me that they were swingers. When Beth said that she and Marcus were swingers I was shocked! I hardly knew what to say. Swingers!?? Beth and Marcus?! I couldn’t imagine. Beth was a PTA officer and taught Sunday school at the church down the road! Marcus owned and operated a successful landscaping company in the area.
How could they be swingers? Marcus didn’t wear leisure suits and gold medallions and have big sideburns with flared tips! And although Beth was extremely buxom, she didn’t wear tube tops and platform shoes. If they smoked pot, I certainly never knew about it. They both seemed so–normal. It didn’t make sense.
“I know what you are thinking,” Beth said. ”I had all kinds of misperceptions and ideas about who swingers were. But I can tell you that virtually none of that is true! At least anymore,” she added. I just shook my head and said, ”I don’t know what to say. I thought you had a good marriage.” ”Oh, but we do!” she replied. ”Marcus is wonderful! And our marriage is stronger now with swinging than it ever has been before.” ”I have a hard time believing that!” I retorted. ”No, it’s true.” Beth said